Difficult forgiveness
Friend said such a story: A solar month of 30 days 45 years old. Found not long ago the husband hid the personal relationships for many years. The husband does not cover up at all, and agree to divorce. The other person is an unmarried woman 30 years old, she provokes openly: Old woman extremely twines and hangs on yellow face hard, can be regarded as anything!
40 year old for the future woman, divorce passively because the other person participate, very much sad feeling, let people pity. As to this third party, even tolerance is greater, more tolerant person, it is difficult to let people forgive. Even Buddhist patriarch, is a kind of awkward, difficult forgiveness.
The people in middle age, die young for no reason in marriage, everything came suddenly, too rapid. At yesterday, still nestle on the happy arms, immersed it in the happy dream. Overnight, the world has totally changed the color: When being ice-cold desperate, repel, to cliffs and precipices for life, reach edge for life somebody run on a bank.
Especially, as to woman, 40 years old, on age and appearance, scarcely strike back ability more or less. Very the weak tendency, very fragile age. The ship reaches Jiang Xin, there is no bank later; Face the deep pool and admire the fish, retreat but can't weave a net. Everything seem too late, too late.
In the face of the irredeemable the mess, few people can turn round easily, leave that and arrange the family for more than 20 years with patience and enduring resolve gracefully. The marriage breaks, sharp marriage chip, make the woman all scratched up. Thereupon future, a series of many meters of many dominoes effect, all foundation happy factor on the family, knocked down repeatedly: Kindred cutting cruelly from,break the 20 more than years one life circle, shuffle inherent life mode again.
All these, but nobody tells, can't tell. Parents are old, can only worry about, angry his innocent daughter in rainly, can not help any again, can angry a broken body even; The colleague can only laugh at the heart that she has no ability to fasten one's own man, even sympathize with, still low-priced, it would not help matters.
Even professional women, because of the economic independence, can live, but face the shuffling anotherly of destiny and marriage, women for the future 40 years old, how much spirit have, how much courage is there? What the life can't bear is heavy after all. Pure housewife, even the severe challenge that will be survived. What the life still can't bear is heavy.
Meet the marriage morals order of the challenge day by day in the face of today, the sociologist, morals family still feel awkward. Because nobody can prevent a young woman from pursuing one's own happy marriage, but do we have responsibility to prevent her from destroying others' happiness? This is that one deserves the sociologist, the question which the jurist probes into.
It is likewise a woman, why must the happiness of a young woman be set up on the agony of the woman 40 years old of another one? Must take all happiness of another woman, is it buried alive with the dead to go for complex of that pitiful virgin of yours? Injure the happiness of a woman 40 years old, it is difficult to forgive.
We can't criticize someone. Say, they will suffer ethical condemnation, but, how much right of words do the morals have perhaps? ? ?
The women for the future 40 years old: If you encounter such misfortune. I want to say: In fact, the sky is very blue, the dark cloud always breaks up; In fact, the sea is not wide, this bank connects with the other shore; God will be concerned about his every kindhearted daughter, perhaps, in some small corner, destiny will shuffle again, who is the final result lucky on earth? Who unlucky again? Can not know yet, perhaps, transforming will appear.
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