It is in heat to form that it is long
In heat in growing all the timing has the only clock. This is grown besides three special historical periods, all the time it is the long hair that is floating.

 I pitch two cross pigtail that take on, long pigtail reach over ten years old, already and buttocks keep a record of events, just. Liked reaching the end the pigtail pigtail most at that time, and then tied two large bows on the end with red ribbon, in this case, the pigtail seems long and pretty. Two bow those with paces that walk, afford to have metre in verse especially, really as if the red butterfly that the couple fluttered, people are walking in the fixing one's eyes on of the passerby chinning up and chesting out, pride and proud which seem exceptional. But at the time of the second grade of primary school, in order to join " tuck in small and red " Have to cut the pigtail very reluctantlily. The so-called one "  Tuck in small and red "  ,Widely known, well-known party at that time  " literature and art class "  . Selected to enter "  Tuck in small and red "  Person not only want it grow beautiful,to also want is good at singing and dancing, second to harshness of condition of it there aren't present art school. But have " tuck in small and red " There is a rigid condition, should just cut the pigtail,cuplife comb a unified " sheep's horn pigtail " . In pigtail sum "  Tuck in small and red "  Between choose after weighing by the latter. Before cutting the pigtail, had cried bitterly first, and then gone to the photo studio to make a photo to make and regard as memory again, came back home and let mother cut the pigtail. Up to now, that photo that front hangs down two long pigtails has still lain in my photo album silently, just those two pigtails were missing at last after keeping for a few years. This is cut into the first special historical period of the short hair by me.

 The second period is in high school. It is a need of unifying the teaching order of a norm of the school to cut hair short at that time. The wind cutting the hair of the beginning, high school girl has been lasting till now all the time. Till now all the time too, I still force the girl to cut hair short to take to the school to heart. Originally all the time beautiful of two eight mace, if combed a pigtail, the youth is beautiful, also save trouble and save worry, but the school just demands to cut into the neither a male nor a female short hair, putting on that neither a male nor a female loose school clothes again, a even more beautiful beautiful young girl will turn into an ugly duckling.

 The third stage is my university period. I, to can not hold the long hair and feel regretful in the most romantically, most likely but the period that the long hair floating up to now. We exactly Qiong Yao, three, when writer's books are selling well Xi Murong in time at school, I nearly bought it all over studying in it all of their works. The woman protagonist in Qiong Yao's novel nearly all divided, delicate and pretty and elegant in the long hair at that time; And three mao is a long hair floating in the air, still know the pigtail and become two and have the pigtail sometimes, the ones that can not say are soft and graceful and graceful; Though Xi Murong has not worn the long hair, she says in a book: More ordinary woman, if there is an elegant long hair, will become beautiful and moving. So, see a long hair passing by gracefully in the street like the woman of the black pigment each time, the feeling of sincere envy rises from the bottom of heart silently. Especially as the long hair is raised by the wind, the careless one is plundered with hands, it is gentle and adding charmingly to show even more. Just write as in Xu Zhimo's poem: It is most that tenderness of bowing, as delicate and shy as what the lotus flower of a piece of water is defeated by cool breeze, always produce the reverie beautiful that can not say. But from short to one difficult to endure course very, especially the middle have one neither long nor short pitching, standing up, hating short wrapping suspicion messy awkward period, it is always out of patience to wait until the hair is long, so this becomes a regret of mine.

 So university from graduate, I begin, wear long hair, toss about hair a kind of life fun to succeed me every day, let long hair waterfall rush down and lay generally then, fly upward with the wind, people seem fly upward with the light dance too sometimes; Pitch two pieces of fried dough twist pigtail loose sometimes, it is wide along cap-like cover to wear one more, the ones that went in summer, in the sunshine in the afternoon, it is relaxed to be satisfied; Pitch a horse's tail pigtail at the top of the head very high sometimes, the pigtail is rocked with the rhythm of walking from side to side too, the whole person is full of young vigor; Can the pitch-black hair have, the fluffy one holds a beautiful chignon at the top of the head, there are noble and graceful, charming and graceful and restrained ones that can not say   In addition, study what kind of clothes what hairdo does it mix, what what hair decorations hairdo buy, fluctuate every day, always enjoy, that kind " whether cut cloud temples as window, card flower yellow to mirror" Feeling the wonderful.

 Have liked the long hair up to now, even pregnant and giving birth to the son, in confinement, have not cut hair short either. Certainly, not cutting hair short except the factor that oneself is fond of, it is because the son likes to be the most more important. While weaning for the son originally, experienced persons told me, the child don't let him form the habit of giving birth, touching arms, seizing ears etc. while sleeping after weaning. However, nobody tells me not to let him touch the hair, but the son has just got used to touching hair after weaning, and feel five, six. What I left was that a head was sent directly long at that time, it is not hot not to dye, black and dense, like silks and satins, slip suitably pleasantly, the straight directly one hangs down waist border, entangle and point one each time, tenderness is opened from the bottom of heart all over the placely. While weaning for the son, not for the moment he finding sustenance caught hold of my hair, sleep touching the hair before each sleep. Having waited until coaxing him and slept, ten twine all over hair on the finger completely. The son makes a noise to feel sometimes, walk out on hair to him while coaxing badly, will quiet down at once once touching the hair, fall asleep quickly. The son called my long hair at that time"  The big hair "  . Ask why he likes touching the hair, he will touch the hair, says intoxicatedly, like touching the hair of the little white hare.

 Son in kindergarten, give he the kindergarten became a difficult problem every day just. Son crying and screaming at will, want to put down and leave heartlessly too sometimes, helpless his both hands are dragging the hair, like " octopus "  It is had, make me a sweat all over, at a loss what to do that it is tight to be next to the skin equally. Waiting until coming out from the kindergarten, I have already turned into that and sent to " Mei ChaoFeng " who flutters arbitrarily . In this way, for the son, I have not entered the barber shop for seven years. Fortunately too popular to repair the sending directly long of the level at that time, the hair was long, just let husbands cut a bit shorter too.

 After the son goes to school, in order to change the style, the so hot as to become big wave of long hair. Perm come back, son watch me to be getting distracted, little mouth a left-falling stroke then, the tears come out, sob, turn into, cry loudly, wail for a moment, sad strength that don't withdraw.

 It is taller than I that the son has already worn now. Lift the thing that touched the hair with him as a child, just laughed ignorantly, seemed to be discussing a thing having nothing to do with him. Well, the son has grown up. Though the son no longer needs "  The big hair "  ,But I like wearing the long hair.

 Wrote in " Book on Filial Piety ": " whether health send skin, receive parents it, dare, injure, beginning of the filial piety even " . In a sense, the long hair is a kind of complex that can't be forgotten in ancient's subconscious. I will not certainly have this kind of complex of the ancient's and know, I only think the long hair is that Heaven for the woman's speciality, can sketch the contours of the woman fresh elegant, quiet and implicit, gentle lines beautiful, it so want use heartily,long hair of tenderness on behalf of human nature of woman write Americanly freely and easily to ultimate attainment, permeate woman's flavor closely through the skin, bone marrow even in the heart of hearts, do not shoulder God for our resources beautiful.

 As time passes, the annual ring is added, that kind of feelings to the long hair still can't change, wisps of silk silks still twine in the heart, touch my chord 

    Difficult forgiveness  
Friend said such a story: A solar month of 30 days 45 years old. Found not long ago the husband hid the personal relationships for many years. The husband does not cover up at all, and agree to divorce. The other person is an unmarried woman 30 years old, she provokes openly: Old woman extremely twines and hangs on yellow face hard, can be regarded as anything!

40 year old for the future woman, divorce passively because the other person participate, very much sad feeling, let people pity. As to this third party, even tolerance is greater, more tolerant person, it is difficult to let people forgive. Even Buddhist patriarch, is a kind of awkward, difficult forgiveness.

The people in middle age, die young for no reason in marriage, everything came suddenly, too rapid. At yesterday, still nestle on the happy arms, immersed it in the happy dream. Overnight, the world has totally changed the color: When being ice-cold desperate, repel, to cliffs and precipices for life, reach edge for life somebody run on a bank.

Especially, as to woman, 40 years old, on age and appearance, scarcely strike back ability more or less. Very the weak tendency, very fragile age. The ship reaches Jiang Xin, there is no bank later; Face the deep pool and admire the fish, retreat but can't weave a net. Everything seem too late, too late.

In the face of the irredeemable the mess, few people can turn round easily, leave that and arrange the family for more than 20 years with patience and enduring resolve gracefully. The marriage breaks, sharp marriage chip, make the woman all scratched up. Thereupon future, a series of many meters of many dominoes effect, all foundation happy factor on the family, knocked down repeatedly: Kindred cutting cruelly from,break the 20 more than years one life circle, shuffle inherent life mode again.

All these, but nobody tells, can't tell. Parents are old, can only worry about, angry his innocent daughter in rainly, can not help any again, can angry a broken body even; The colleague can only laugh at the heart that she has no ability to fasten one's own man, even sympathize with, still low-priced, it would not help matters.

Even professional women, because of the economic independence, can live, but face the shuffling anotherly of destiny and marriage, women for the future 40 years old, how much spirit have, how much courage is there? What the life can't bear is heavy after all. Pure housewife, even the severe challenge that will be survived. What the life still can't bear is heavy.

Meet the marriage morals order of the challenge day by day in the face of today, the sociologist, morals family still feel awkward. Because nobody can prevent a young woman from pursuing one's own happy marriage, but do we have responsibility to prevent her from destroying others' happiness? This is that one deserves the sociologist, the question which the jurist probes into.

It is likewise a woman, why must the happiness of a young woman be set up on the agony of the woman 40 years old of another one? Must take all happiness of another woman, is it buried alive with the dead to go for complex of that pitiful virgin of yours? Injure the happiness of a woman 40 years old, it is difficult to forgive.

We can't criticize someone. Say, they will suffer ethical condemnation, but, how much right of words do the morals have perhaps? ? ?

The women for the future 40 years old: If you encounter such misfortune. I want to say: In fact, the sky is very blue, the dark cloud always breaks up; In fact, the sea is not wide, this bank connects with the other shore; God will be concerned about his every kindhearted daughter, perhaps, in some small corner, destiny will shuffle again, who is the final result lucky on earth? Who unlucky again? Can not know yet, perhaps, transforming will appear.
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